The exhibit focuses on the life and marriage of Doctor and Mary Tarbell of Tompkins County, New York, during the Civil War. The exhibition is presented in conjunction with An Irrepressible Conflict: The Empire State in the Civil War, a 7,000-square foot exhibition commemorating the sesquicentennial of the Civil War. Both exhibitions are open through September 22, 2013.
Doctor Tarbell and Mary Lucy Conant met at a very young age while attending school at Groton Academy in Groton, Tompkins County. The two became childhood sweethearts and maintained a steady correspondence during Doctor’s military service.
After his capture at Winchester, Virginia, it was feared that Doctor Tarbell was killed. Neither Tarbell’s family nor Mary learned of his fate until a telegraph arrived informing them of his release from Libby Prison. Following his parole in February 1865, Doctor was given 30 days leave during which he returned to Peruville, Tompkins County, to wed Mary Conant.
Soon after, Tarbell returned to his unit and served the remainder of the war, finishing his service as a Brevet Major on July 27, 1865. He returned to Ithaca and was elected Tompkins County Clerk. In civilian life, Tarbell became a successful local entrepreneur and worked in the life insurance business.
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Illustrations: Above, Doctor and Mary Tarbell, taken between 1861-1865- middle, an April 6, 1865 letter from Doctor Tarbell to his wife, Mary (facsimile)- and below, Doctor and Mary Tarbell with their three children in about 1873 (All images courtesy The History Center in Tompkins County).